Marriage appears to be of a dying commitment. There are people who are together for many, many years and marriage is just not part of the commitment. There are people who refuse to get married--they usually date for about 5-6 years, cheat, switch-up, or just don't have a sense of commitment or hate that little phrase 'tied-down'. But, I assure you there are many, many reasons to get married. There are advantages and yes, there are disadvantages (as is life.)
Excerpted from "Top 10: Reasons to Get Married" from Askmen.com:
"No.10 Marriage makes you live longer
One of the ways that getting married improves your life is by making it last longer. Various studies have indicated that happily married men tend to outlast their single counterparts. For example, a 2006 study performed by University of California researchers contended that single people are five times more likely to die of infectious disease, nearly 40% more likely to die of heart disease and twice as likely to die accidentally. Other studies suggest that the rate of mortality is a whopping 250% higher among single men than it is among married men."
One of the ways that getting married improves your life is by making it last longer. Various studies have indicated that happily married men tend to outlast their single counterparts. For example, a 2006 study performed by University of California researchers contended that single people are five times more likely to die of infectious disease, nearly 40% more likely to die of heart disease and twice as likely to die accidentally. Other studies suggest that the rate of mortality is a whopping 250% higher among single men than it is among married men."
Who can argue with that? Wouldn't it be awesome if love and marriage made you live longer? I love numbers and facts. Another point I have to put out there is that marriage leads less risks. Usually, you just have yourself to argue with during a single life (unless you live with your mother and actually listen to her). As a married couple you will argue for one's safety, attention, etc. Arguing (lightly) is normal and I am sure persuasion can help prevent many bad choices in life! Humans are social creatures from stonge age to internet.
Let's see... there's also income advantages (taxes), and if and when you have children, there's another tax break. Combined income, sense of security, and budgeting together. Two heads are better than one when applying for loans...Oh, and here's the big one, continuing your blood-line. That's not just for males. Just because women don't pass on their last name, doesn't mean we don't pass on our DNA. And not to mention, who wants to die lonely? Hello crappy nursing home!
Intimacy. It may not seem like it because of all the 'cons' and jokes in media about 'marriage stopping sex' but, technically married men and women have more sex. Just think about it! If you had to engage in a conversation, flowers, dinner, the whole kettle, just to have sex as many times as a married couple, well.... hello unemployment or foreclosure. Your husband or wife is that one partner where you can build on a bedroom relationship. No offense, but who likes the awkwardness in the bedroom...each...and every time? Not to mention, least risk for STD's and a lot more room to feel confident.
"No.2 Married people are happier
A recent study done at an Australian university shows that married men are happier than single men. In fact, married men are 135% more likely to report a high happiness score than single men. That's an astounding figure.
A recent study done at an Australian university shows that married men are happier than single men. In fact, married men are 135% more likely to report a high happiness score than single men. That's an astounding figure.
Marriage offers a man the kind of stability and support that allows him to succeed in all other aspects of life. Think about it: How much more could you accomplish if all the drama from crazy women and bad breakups was replaced by the presence of a loving and caring partner?"
And lastly, being with someone, sharing your life and memories, commiting to someone is not as bad as they make it sound. The next time your girl or guy mentions marriage, don't push it away! The reason my post is directed towards men is because often times, it has to start with them. It is etiquette for a man to ask the woman. And don't search for perfect, search for right for you. But, don't settle for crap either! Be happy, and be MARRIED. Don't forget, divorce is possible if it doesn't work out, and if finances is why you are so afraid, sign a pren-up. agreement. Don't let the fears of yesterday hold you back for tomorrow. Besides, do you really know how long you have left on this beautiful Earth? Why not spend that with a life partner?
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